Maybe it’s just me… but is it sometimes odd how our closest friends are also our dearest enemies? I know I know. Not too original of a thought. But seriously. Why is it that we tend to befriend people who aren’t healthy for us? The same question goes for why we also fall in love with people who are toxic. Why on Earth do we do any of that? Why do we run to unhealthy relationships so quickly, as if we need that unhealthy edge in our lives?Don’t we realize what’s good for us is to just stay away? Even telling the person that they’re hurting us would be more beneficial than just standing around whining to another frenemy about said frenemy when all you want to do is to take the enemy out.
Maybe it’s just that we all crave drama so. I know I do. Anyway, answer me my question. Why on Earth do we search, oh not just search —- long, for relationships with expiration dates? Why do we long for the toxicity of a frenemy and a love who’s just a negative influence? Why?